OkCupid User Talks About His Photo Makeover Experience

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Before OkCupid photo makeover

Before OkCupid photo makeover

 

Me: “So tell me about your experience with getting photos taken for OkCupid.”

Nick:  “In the beginning being on OkCupid was demoralizing.  Like an example would be that I would send a message to a girl I didn’t find attractive just to see if I could get a response.  And funny enough I wouldn’t get a response.  So that would make me feel like, ‘oh I can’t get anybody.’  That’s how it made me feel.

“The biggest difference from the after photos is the experience with the response rate.  So before in order to get a response from a girl I would have to write a very elaborate and very much for-the-girl message.   It wasn’t an easy task; I had to spend a lot of time and effort.

Before OkCupid photo makeover

Before OkCupid photo makeover

But now I can say something like ‘hello’ or ‘hi.’  I can say it to really good-looking

girls and I’ll get a response.  And it happened just the other day with an asian girl; I was like, she’s pretty cute.  I think it was just ‘hi’ and she sent me all these questions.  I didn’t respond.  For me though I was still stuck with the mentality of ‘oh, I would never get a response back’ – and I did.

“I think on a few occasions I sent some really dumb messages to girls and I’ve gotten responses.  So that would’ve for sure never happened before.

“So the biggest difference is feeling like that now I can pick and choose.  Whereas before it was get what you can get.  Which sucked because if there was someone that did respond and I didn’t actually want it, it’s a terrible position to be in.”

 

After OkCupid photo makeover

After OkCupid photo makeover

After OkCupid photo makeover

After OkCupid photo makeover

Me: “That’s so crazy to hear that.”

Nick: “It’s crazy to experience.  To feel that.

“When you’re not wanted… I kind of feel like I have to prove myself.  I’m constantly sending messages to girls trying to get a response.  And now I don’t feel like I have to prove myself to anyone because the response is so likely to come back.  It’s a huge difference.”

After OkCupid photo makeover

After OkCupid photo makeover

 

 

 

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